Marking the fallen
Athens man secures stone for beloved uncle
The Daily Mail
May 23, 2009
As Memorial Day approaches, it is a little known fact that many veterans, especially those whose families have predeceased them, end up in graves unmarked by memorial stones. All honorably discharged veterans are entitled to military markers provided at government expense, and a local man who recently obtained one for a family member reviews the procedure.
James Egbert Smith II served with the National Guard and in the Korean War with the U.S. Marines.
Although he died in 1986, Smith did not have a stone marking his gravesite. His nephew, Richard Peters of Athens, was able to obtain one 20 years later.
After Smith passed away, Peters’ mother, Smith’s sister, tried to get a military marker. She obtained and mailed a form requesting a marker for her brother’s grave in the Jefferson Heights Cemetery family plot to the local Veterans administration office, but she never received a response.
She did not try to get a marker again but went on living her life, Peters said.
Peters said he visits his uncle’s grave every Memorial Day but is one of the few remaining family members in the area who knows its location.
“I know he is there. I put a flag there,” he said.
In 2006, Peters decided to try to find the serial number and get the marker.
“I knew that once I died, his grave would never have a flag placed on it,” he said.
According to the Department of Veterans Affairs, more than 1 million stones were requested between 2004 and 2008 fiscal years.
Three-hundred and fifty stones or markers were sent to foreign countries in 2008, the Department reported.
Jim Smith served in the military for 12 years, first in the National Guard and later in the U.S. Marines.
Peters did not see his uncle, who served with the Marines during the Korean War, very often as a child. He recalled that his uncle, who served during the Korean War, was away a lot of the time.
But he idolized his uncle Jim, who, Peters recalled, was always a teaser.
Once Peters, just a youngster then, had been allowed to put polish on his uncle’s shoes. Some polish got on the uniform pants and Smith had convinced him he would get in trouble.
“I thought they were going to lock him up,” Peters said.
But, of course, that did not happen, he added.
After the Korean War ended, Smith worked at the U.S. Embassy in Portugal. After Smith left the service, he moved to Washington, D.C., and then to New York City, where he was diagnosed with cancer. He was treated at Memorial Sloan-Kettering Cancer Center.
By this time, Peters was an adult. He had joined the Navy and was a veteran of the Vietnam War and enjoyed a family of his own. He took his sons to New York to visit their great-uncle, whom they had never met.
Smith, who was born Jan. 31, 1933, died 18 months after Peters’ visit, on Feb. 7, 1986.
Peters started the quest to obtain a marker for his uncle’s grave by visiting the local Veterans administration office. He knew that a DD-214 form, containing all of Smith’s active duty service information, should be on file at the Greene County Court House.
But the file was missing.
The local Veterans administration office had on file Peters’ mother’s application for the marker, but the form lacked Smiths military serial number, which was needed to verify Smith’s service record.
Peters was told to call staff at a National Guard office in Albany, from whom he was able to obtain his uncle’s National Guard duty information.
However, as a reserve, Smith was not eligible for a military marker.
Peters had to obtain records of his uncle’s service with the Marines.
Peters said that tracking down necessary information he needed was difficult because many family records, including those of his grandfather, who served with the National Guard in the First World War, had been lost in a fire. That grandfather founded the Veterans of Foreign Wars Post 770 in Catskill.
Peters called a cousin who lived in their grandmother’s old house to see if he knew any information about Smith.
The cousin, also named Jim, called two days later to tell Peters that he had found a document from 1951 containing Smith’s promotion to the rank of corporal in the Marines. The promotion document contained Smith’s serial number.
Peters could now apply for the marker.
Peters worked with the Department of Veterans Affairs to file necessary paperwork for the marker.
“The people were very considerate,” he said of department staff.
He also coordinated with the cemetery’s association to have the marker erected upon delivery.
One day, Peters said, he was called “out of the blue” and told the granite headstone was ready.
He said the process only took about six months to complete but involved a number of phone calls and paperwork.
Peters said that the longer a relative waits to apply for a marker, the more likely it will be that necessary paperwork will be lost or forgotten, especially if a veteran is without an immediate family.
Peters said the marker he was able to get for his uncle would forever mark the grave of a Marine and scout troops and other organizations that tend to military graves on Memorial Day would always know where to place a flag in honor of his uncle’s life and service.
“If everyone with one relative who does not have a stone works on getting one, it is worth it,” Peters said.
More information about ordering military headstones and markers can be found on the United States Department of Veterans Affairs Website at http://www.cem.va.gov/hm_hm.asp.